happily ever after

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Randomness


This would be Dave during warm-ups before the game on Saturday. You can't tell very well with this picture what he's wearing. Starting at the bottom. Green cleats. Bright purple tall socks. White pants. Yellow & blue jersey. Hot pink arm bands. Such a fashion statement. Clearly we don't have enough uniform regulations in this league.


Monday morning found the boys back to school work, much to their delight.


We got a LOT of rain on Monday and some frigid temperatures. I found this bug in our driveway. These things drive me nuts, especially when I see them in the house. ESPECIALLY when they decide to hide in my clothes and crawl across my belly at 6am when I'm trying to get dressed quietly!


Decided to surprise the boys with a Sonic Run yesterday. Very happy boys.


A few weeks ago I finally did something to the big plain wall in the sunroom. With the idea from my Mama, this didn't cost me a thing. I found the mats and frames in storage. I love projects like that. They are different Currier & Ives prints. I love Currier & Ives prints.


While the boys were at football, this is what I got to cuddle with while watching my TV shows last night. Ok, not exactly cuddle, but every now and then he'd let me pet him with my toe. Such a nice doggie.


My poor sweetie works such long days. He finally came down from the office around 9pm. This is us, Sweetie cuddles better than the dog.

I'm trying to get better at taking pictures of our life throughout the day, mostly for my sweet parents that miss us, but also because I'm a lousy scrap-book-maker.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

insecurities & fears

please tell me i'm not the only one.

it lasts about a week.

every month.

around the same time.

little thoughts start creeping in.

bad thoughts.

fears.

i have a precious family. lots of precious friends. a precious church.

and yet, at these 'times' all that is forgotten and i'm left in a heap of my sinful thoughts and fears. insecurity takes over.

i can see it coming. i'm aware that it's going on. but not until i'm in the middle of a bad decision does it finally make me pause and fall to my knees.

i was reminded this past Sunday of just how important it is to take every thought captive and instead of comparing it to the world, compare it to the scriptures and what God would say about it.

you'd think after so many years of months of these 'times' i would learn. so thankful for a God that gives mercies, new every month. and friends that love me through them.

Friday, October 5, 2012

what we've been up to lately

we've been on school break, so nice. the boys have played with friends a lot...sorry, 'hung out' with friends, A LOT. sweetie was gone for a whole 7 days, boo. i watched the two seasons of downton abbey, AGAIN...ah the wonderful bliss that is Downton Abbey! while on break the boys have gotten to work with sweetie a little bit again. and i got a text mid-day yesterday from dave saying that dad was being mean to him, i told him it was dad's joy to get to harass his sons, don't steal it from him.

(sorry it's all grainy, i was trying to not disturb this precious moment. the baby was glad to have his dad home.)

calvi is learning the guitar, started in the spring, he's pretty good now, love to hear him practice. apparently he plays at night when dave is trying to go to sleep, such a nice big brother.

(me being glad that sweetie is home. us playing footsies over our morning coffee.)

dave lost ONE of his cleats for football, seriously, that kid, how does he lose ONE shoe, ugh. football hasn't been as exciting this year, i don't know why, sweetie could probably explain it better than me. calvi has had several weekends of double-headers, which is un-heard of in football...but he's a trooper. dave hasn't gotten to play as much since he's moved up to jv as apposed to being in the youth league, bummer, of course with only one shoe, you can't expect the coach to use him much. goober.

(while taking dave clothes shopping, i was VERY bored waiting for him...apparently the only thing i know how to take a picture of is my feet.)

we are trying to win the 'yard of the month' sign in our neighborhood. we are trying really hard. though right now there could be monkies living in the yard, someone needs to mow. and i threaten each month to go steal that sign and put it in my yard. i think we might just make our own sign 'almost as good as the yard of the month'. i wonder if i staked winston in the front yard if it would help our chances. i think so.

(just started reading this book, love it.)

work has picked up for both companies, and we are thankful once again. we are also thankful that God has blessed us so much during this economy downturn, though we have lost much, we have also been able to stay afloat and have paid off so much business debt so far and we know it is all because of His many blessings. so thankful.

we've joined a co-op this year. this homeschoolin' mama hasn't ever done a co-op because that means i would have to help teach something, and let's face it, i would only be qualified to teach recess or snack or NAP! well, since the boys are now in high school (calvin is a junior and dave is a sophomore) i needed extra help with their classes and a friend totally talked me into joining her co-op and promised they wouldn't throw me into anything too heavy my first year...yeah, i'm doing Chemistry. seriously people. well, i grade a bunch for the other classes, i help in elementary art (which means i'm taking an elementary art class) and i'm in Chemistry. but we finally found one of the dad's that's all mr. smarty pants to come in and 'teach'. all i have to do is all the administrative stuff, whew, that was a close one. and we are LOVING this co-op. such precious peoples. and the boys have such a heavy work load, i finally feel like i'm doing right by them and they will be fully prepared for college. hopefully.

(another try at instagram, a self portrait. awkward.)

i have spent good quality time organizing areas around this home and have been having so much fun doing it. i will show you all that later on. i'm sure you're just beside yourself in anticipation.

now it's time to get going on my day of getting dave to do his chores and me just over seeing from my easy chair with my cup of coffee in hand. wish me luck.

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

joy

have you read this book yet?


it has changed me. it is a beautifuly written book. i cannot recommend it enough.

and this month on her website she is doing a 31 days of joy challenge, which i want to try and tackle. wanna join me?

and so my parents will keep reading my blog here are their token pictures of the boys....



i may be biased but i think them to be the most handsomest and most precious of all children.

Thursday, September 27, 2012

photos from my phone

this is as much fall color as i've seen in the neighborhood so far. it's comin'!

i cannot tell you how much i love our little house. i struggled with it for quite awhile, but now, i just love it...and when i look at other places that might be available (house shopping is so much fun) i always come back to this and just love it more than anything else.

my favorite part of everyday.

schnoogie bear doing his schoolwork. he gets up everymorning, on time, takes his shower & gets right down to business. love him, so much.

i was having a wonderful moment one night, all to myself, with a cup of coffee in my new mug, sitting in my favorite spot on the couch.

the other part of that same moment. all tucked in with my favorite magazine.

a cozy evening.

this is what i wake up to in the mornings. lovely.

i've started playing with instagram, don't have a clue what i'm doing, but it makes me feel all artsy.

see, all artsy.

enjoy your day!!!

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

calvin & hobbes

see this guy, this is hobbes. he's been around for awhile. like 17 years.


my mom bought him one day when we were shopping together, right after we found out that the baby in my tummy was a boy. jay and i had always known we would name our son 'calvin'.

so hobbes joined us that day and rode around in the baby seat in the shopping cart.

here's calvin's first picture with his hobbes.


and here they are today. too cute.

(i don't know who that goober is behind him.)

hobbes got some cuts last time through the washer and needed some minor surgery. he's been in the waiting room for YEARS. i just picked him up from the doctor's yesterday. he's all healed and lookin' good.


and this is what calvin did with him yesterday while he was doing school...is my boy texting while he's suppose to be doing school!? great.


Tuesday, September 25, 2012

so thankful

1. it was so cold last night i had to grab an extra blanket.

2. laying in bed and seeing the morning light through the trees.
3. going on my morning walk while everyone else was sleeping and the coffee pot was perkin'.
4. being cold on my walk, love it. ** 5. coming home to find the kitty waiting for his breakfast.
6. getting to kiss on my boys this morning. ** 7. sitting in my quiet chair sipping on my coffee.
8. face-timing with my sweetie this morning. love that man. ** 9. got to clean house yesterday, what is it about a clean house that i love so much.
10. my fall candle, so yummy.
11. it's fall, and i'm giddy.
have a happy day everyone...and be thankful.